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Saturday, 24 December 2011

Beruang, Singa dan Babi bertemu di hutan... 

Beruang : "Korang tau tak, sekali aku mengaum, seluruh hutan menggigil." 

Singa : "Ek eleh! Tak power lagi. Aku kalo mengaum, semua belantara kegerunan." 

Babi kata: "Wa La Weh.... Aku bersin skali aje, satu dunia panik beb!!"

(selsema babi)
Sebuah helikopter yang membawa seorang juruterbang berserta 2 orang kenamaan telah jatuh terhempas. Juruterbang itu terselamat tetapi 2 orang kenamaan itu mati. Apabila sedar

dari koma, juruterbang itu telah disoal siasat oleh pihak polis," Cuba awak ceritakan apa yang telah terjadi untuk memudahkan siasatan kami." "Mmmmm... entahlah tapi pada ketinggian 30,000 meter tiba-tiba saya terasa sejuk sangat. Jadi saya telah matikan kipas helikopter tu...." !!!!! 

Saturday, 17 December 2011


#Some people may say that they really don’t have intention to hurt others. But, the way they talk, act and treat others unintentionally hurt others, and even create hatred and resentful !

They never realize, if they don’t want to be hurt by others, they have to start to treat others with respect , sincere and dignity !! Otherwise other people are going to avoid to communicate with them ! They forgot that the holes in fence are still exist forever, even after they lifted out the nails from fence . 

The fence appearance will never remain the same as before ! It’s the same analogy for the way they hurt others !! They simplify their thought : after made mistake(s) and hurt others deeply, say ‘sorry’ is more than enough to cover their guilty feeling !!! But actually it is not enough !! More important thing : whether they show their repentance or not, and not create next victims !

And I could not forget things happened in the past, because together with present, and future,..like or dislike, sweet or bitter, they become part of my life ….!! I don’t want to hide it,…nor pretend to have a ‘perfect’ life

I learned from experience happened in my life, that life is not about ‘take and give’,….but more about ‘give, give, give... and (sometimes) take’ !
I am ready to give more without expecting to take it from same person….because more evidences that I’ll take something from others whom I never gave before.

Yes, we all are growing older, but becoming mature is a choice !! One thing I always remember : I will be walking , and treat others with respect and dignity
Because what comes around goes around.

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Kepada yang masih SINGLE…
Cinta ibarat kupu-kupu. Makin kau kejar, makin ia menghindar. Tapi, bila kau biarkan ia terbang, ia akan menghampirimu di saat kau tak menduga. Cinta mampu membahagiakanmu tapi sering pula ia menyakiti, tapi cinta itu hanya istimewa apabila kau berikan cinta kepada seseorang yang layak menerima.

Kepada yang ragu-ragu dengan PERNIKAHAN.. .
Cinta bukannya mencari seseorang yang “SEMPURNA”, tetapi menemukan seseorang yang mampu menjadikan dirimu sempurna. Kepada PLAYBOY / PLAYGIRL… Jangan katakan “AKU CINTA PADAMU!” bila kau tidak benar-benar peduli. Jangan bicarakan soal perasaan bila itu tidak benar-benar ada. Jangan kau sentuh hidup seseorang bila kau hanya berniat main-main dengannya. Jangan menatap ke dalam mata seseorang bila apa yang kau lakukan hanya pembohongan. Hal paling kejam yg dilakukan ialah membuat seseorang jatuh cinta, sedangkan kau tidak berniat langsung “UNTUK MENERIMANYA” saat ia terjatuh.

Kepada yang PATAH HATI…
Sakit… luka, hancur.. patah hati… bertahan selama kau menginginkannya dan akan menghiris luka sedalam kau membiarkannya. Persoalannya, bukan bagaimana mengatasi rasa sakit itu, tetapi adalah apa yang boleh diambil dan dihayati sebagai pengajaran dan hikmahnya.

Bagaimana kalau jatuh cinta? Mahu jatuh, jatuhlah! Tetapi, jangan sampai terjerumus. Biar selamba tapi stabil. Berkongsilah tetapi jangan tak adil. Cubalah untuk memahami tetapi bukan bermakna tidak boleh meminta apa-apa. Bersedialah untuk terluka dan menderita, tetapi jangan simpan semua rasa sakit jika itu yang benar-benar dialami.

Kepada yang ingin MENGUASAI…
Hatimu patah melihat orang yang kau cintai berbahagia dgn org lain, tetapi akan lebih sakit lagi apabila mengetahui bahawa orang yang kau cintai ternyata tidak bahagia dengan mu.

Kepada yang takut MENGAKUI…
Cinta menyakitkan bila anda putuskan hubungan dengan seseorang. Tetapi, lebih sakit lagi bila seseorang memutuskan hubungan denganmu. Tetapi, cinta paling menyakitkan apabila orang yang kau cintai langsung tidak mengetahui perasaanmu terhadapnya.

Hal menyedihkan dalam hidup ialah bila kau bertemu seseorang lalu jatuh cinta. Kemudian akhirnya menyedari bahawa dia bukanlah jodohmu dan kau telah mensia-siakan masa bertahun-tahun untuk seseorang yang tidak layak. Kalau sekarang dia sudah tidak layak, 10 tahun dari sekarang pun dia tetap tak akan layak. Biarkan dia pergi dan lupakan..


Before marriage.
Darling here.. darling there...
After marriage.
Baling here... baling there..

Before marriage.
I die for you. . .
After marriage.
'You die, up to you. '
Lagi lama married.
You die I help you!

Before marriage.
You go anywhere. . I follow you.
After marriage. .
You go anywhere. . up to you .
Lagi lama married.
You go anywhere, better u got lost!!

Before wedding
you are my heart, you are my love'
After wedding
'you get on my nerves. '

Before wedding
'you are sweet and kind just like Cinderella'
After wedding
'you are worse than godzila'

Before wedding
Roses are red, violets are blue. Like it or not, I'm with you
After wedding
Roses are dead, I am blue. You get on my head, I sue you!

Before wedding
Every makan he brings you to Shangri-La
After wedding
You want to go, he says you wait-la!

Before wedding
She looks like Anita Sarawak
After wedding
Don't know whether katak or pontianak !!


To remind me how meaningful my life is

A time comes in my life when i finally get it. When in the midst of all my fears and insanity i stop dead in my tracks and somewhere the voice inside my head cries out - ENOUGH!

Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, my sobs begin to subside, i shudder once or twice, i blink back my tears and through a mantle of wet lashes i begin to look at the world through new eyes.

This is my awakening. i realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. i come to terms with the fact that he is not A PRNCE CHARMING and i am not CINDERELLA and that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter). and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with me, and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.

I awaken to the fact that i am not perfect, and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what i am and its OK as they are entitled to their own views and opinions and i learn the importance of loving and championing myself, and in the process a sense of newly found confidence is born of self-approval.

I will stop bitching and blaming other people for the things they did to me or didn't do it for me and i learn that the only thing i can really count on is the unexpected. i learn that not everyone will always be there for me, and that it's not always about me. So, i learn to stand on my own and to take care of myself and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.

I will stop judging and pointing fingers, and i begin to accept people as they are, and to over look their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.

I realize that much of the way i view myself, and the world around me, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into my psyche. And i begin to sift through all the crap i've been fed about how i should behave, how i should look, how much i shouldn't weigh, what i should wear, where i should shop, what i should drive, how and where i should live, what i should do for a living, what i should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children, or what i owe my parents.

I learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view.And i begin reassessing and redefining who i am and what i really stand for. I learn the difference between wanting and needing, and i begin to discard the doctrines and values i've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with, and in the process i learn to go with my instincts. I learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. I learn that the only cross to bear is the one i choose to carry, and that martyrs get burned at the stake.

Then i learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving, and when to walk away. I learn not to project my needs or my feelings onto a relationship. I learn that i will not be more cutes, more intelligent, more lovable, or important.

I learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as i would have them be. I stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes. I learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love. and i learn that i don't have the right to demand love on my terms. Just to make me happy. And i learn that 'alone' does not mean lonely.

And i look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that i will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and i stop trying to compete with the image inside my head and agonizing over how i "stack up." i also stop working so hard at putting feelings aside, smoothing things over, and ignoring my needs.

I learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK. . . and that it is my right to want things that i want. and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands. i come to the realization that i deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, and respect, and i will not settle for less. And i allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes me, to glorify me with his touch. and in the process i internalize the meaning of self-respect.

And i learn that my body really is my mosque. i begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water, and taking more time to exercise.i learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear, so i take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul, so i take more time to laugh and to play.

I learn that, for the most part, in life i get what i believe i deserve. and that much of life is a self-fulfilling prophecy.i learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More importantly, i learn that in order to achieve success, i need direction, discipline, and perseverance.

I also learn that no one can do it all alone and its OK to risk asking for help. i learn that the only thing i must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. i learn to step right into and through my fears, because i know that whatever happens i can handle it, and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on my terms.

I learn to fight for my life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. i learn that life isn't always fair, i don't always get what i think i deserve, and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions i learn not to personalize things. I learn that God isn't punishing me or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And i learn to deal with evil in its most primal state - the ego.

I learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy, and resentment must be understood and redirected, or they will suffocate the life out of me and poison the universe that surrounds me

I learn to admit when i am wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. I learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things i take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly,i begin to take responsibility for myself. by myself, and i try to make my self a promise to never betray myself and to never ever settle for less than my heart's desire.

And i hang a wind chime outside my window so i can listen to the wind. And i make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.

Finally, with courage in my heart and with God by my side, i take a stand, i take a deep breath, and i begin to design the life i want to live as best as i can.Nural bania bahari a.k.a bubu !

LOVE: 2 . .

#Assalamualaikummm..... !! alhamdulillah..,ako suda slmt sampai di umah, perjalanan slama 6 jam, dengan hujan yg lebat sgt2...ada jugak ako tgk keta accident td, ngeri...hmmm..tau lah kan mcm mana cuaca skrg nie... s0 ! reminder kepada yg drive kreta !! be careful k !! ingat lah ibu bapa yg tersayang... !! ^_^ sampai jak di rumah ako di sambut ngan sepupu q yg bru jak berusia 2 thn 8 bln !! she call me kakak bunny !! euw..she's so cute with her curly hair ,last jumpa dia time baby, al maklumlah drg menetap di nun jauh d pulau pinang sana...happy dpt jumpa family di sini, ak0 apa lagi sampai jak ltk luggage q ..twos p dapur mkn !! hahaha..apalah hidop q tanpa mknan..lama o xmkn masakan mama q...

pic kat bawah nie lah kazen ako tu..dayang azizahanina a.k.a yayang

Thursday, 15 December 2011

LOVE: first page.....

LOVE: first page.....: #asaalamualaikum !! this is my first page !! morning !! lebatnya hujan pgi nie... lega !! happy !! and bsykur sgt !! exam da pass !! penat, ...

first page.....

#asaalamualaikum !! this is my first page !! morning !! lebatnya hujan pgi nie... lega !! happy !! and bsykur sgt !! exam da pass !! penat, mata mcm panda suda, study smpi pagi.. ! bbaloi jugak..alhamdulillah..amin..amin..amin.. mcm nda pcaya nie..hbis sua sem 1... next year jdi senior suda..hahaha...<maw mbuli> bole ka ?? smlm di hostel ada bwt majlis hari perpishan, sdih jugak =.= . yalah,,senior2 yg comel2 n hot2 teda suda...hope drg success di luar sana ! amin. .n smlm jugak birthday my bff kak dkay !! tharu btol dia nie,,sampai menanges...sumpah ! ssh ow maw tgk dia mnanges,,, hahaha..lu kena beb !! we love u kak dkay...best jugak aktiviti2 smlm,dance, kar0k, n the best part maen kek ! gila e...bminyak mukak q... !! hahaha...